Wednesday, May 02, 2007

meeting men

Welll, I've been a busy little bee of late. I've been working at an expo, 9am to 9 pm, and it's been yet another interesting experience. What is nice is ai met a man with which I had a lovely flirtation.

And that's the interesting bit...... the art of flirtation from different views.

My angle is :

No bull, no games, no lies. I tell it like it is, straight from the hip, so to speak. I'm honest, at times brutal, but you know where you stand with me, and you know what you get from the first day.

Except for the intimate stuff of course, that can wait untill later .....

EVERYONE I know says that is the wrong angle!!!!! They say you should 'treat 'em mean & keep 'em keen' - or don't tell the truth, disguise it in a nicer form, etc.

So, if a guys says he doesn't play games, does he say that cos it's the right thing to say but doesn't mean it?

Or does he really mean he can take the honest truth up front ... no -holds-barred. Cos most of them can't. I mean I've met no-one in 4 years that can - so actually I should be lying to them that's what they want, and that is what clearly works for other people!

Should I? Anyone else have an opinion on this?

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